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Sometimes I come across a blog post that I just have to share. The excerpt below is from Kazegadway – Finding the Wonder Daily.
As I cruised the streets where homeless sleep, I encounter a single young woman wrapped up in a blanket trying to keep warm. I stopped to give her a warm sleeping bag. She spoke very clearly. “I was so cold last night that I didn’t think I would wake up. Then I wake up and someone is offering me a sleeping bag. That is so amazing.”
I grin and leave as she wraps up and goes back to sleep. I worry that she is going to be harmed by sleeping in the open with no friends nearby. Then a homeless man in a jacket and backpack calls out to me. “I’m watching to see no one steals her blanket. Thanks for stopping by.”
I am blessed twice over. Once by a young woman who awakes amazed at the world. And again by a homeless man who watches over her.
The author is in her “7th decade.” A woman who, after spending a lifetime working to address the root causes of poverty around the world, now spends her days tending the homeless, and writing about her encounters. The excerpt above is from a post called “Wake Up Amazed” and you can read the rest of that post at that link.
But every post is a gem, filled with compassion, wisdom, and humility. She writes in “Attention“:
I find myself paying attention to where the homeless sleep or just hang out during the day. I notice who has a blanket or a backpack and if they are alone or with someone. I look at their faces and see alertness or maybe pain. Since I have moved to Albuquerque, they are never just in the background.
Perhaps that is why they talk to me. Something they see in me tells them that I notice them as people.
Here’s another brief snippet from Prayer and Action
One middle aged man talks frankly about looking for a job. “I’m not going to get a job. Every day it seems less possible. The longer I stay away from work, the more I look like a thug, unshaven and dirty.”
I give him all the contacts that I have. I don’t want to end the conversation by saying “good luck” or something else lame. So I hesitate.
“You aren’t going to pray for me, are you?” he says with a laugh.
“I don’t think so,” I say. “But I don’t know how to acknowledge you are a part of eternity without praying. I want you to know that you are special.”
I stop, feeling very stupid.
Stunned, he says “That is the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me.” He walks away.
Silently with wet eyes I pray “God have mercy.
Her stories touch me deeply. “There but for the grace of God, go I” we sometimes say when encountering people less fortunate than us. There goes my son, your daughter, our Nana, that guy I went to Prom with, the girl who broke my heart in college. The professor who seemed half-crazy in the kindest, wisest way. The next-door neighbor who took in stray cats and fed me cookies when I was a kid. They are part of us.
Reading her simple posts brings to mind what the Christian mystic Julian of Norwich wrote so long ago:
God is to us everything that is good and comfortable for us: He is our clothing that for love wrappeth us, claspeth us, and all encloseth us for tender love, that He may never leave us; being to us all-thing that is good, as to mine understanding.
Between God and the human there is no between.
I hope you will take a look at her blog. You may “wake up amazed” by how profound simple kindness can be. Kazegadway – Finding the Wonder Daily.
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This part “struck a home-run” inside me:
“You aren’t going to pray for me, are you?” he says with a laugh.
“I don’t think so,” I say. *****“But I don’t know how to acknowledge you are a part of eternity without praying. I want you to know that you are special.”*****
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That was my favorite part too!
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Very glad for the referral… the snippets you have posted touch me deeply.
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I’m glad you liked it. I think a lot of readers will.
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What really gets me here is just the importance of acknowledging that a homeless person is a person. I struggle with this, living in an area where appeals for money are constant. In some instances, I know what to do. To the guy who hangs out near the bagel store, I know I can offer a bagel and a quick, but friendly exchange of words. It helps when money is not involved because I worry about what people will do with the money. I feel OK giving some to the Latina lady who hangs out in front of Target with a sad face and cardboard sign saying she needs money to pay rent and feed her 5 children because it seems unlikely she will buy drugs or alcohol. This post makes me think about how I need to find other ways to be kind and to engage in spite of my feelings of discomfort and vulnerability.
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You are doing more than most, and I’m sure that makes a huge difference in the lives of those you are helping. But I agree. Too often we want to avert our eyes, because we don’t know what to day or do or how to help and it seems overwhelming. But just meeting their eyes with a nod and smile, I imagine, as we might anyone we pass on the street, may be a way to share our common humanity.
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Thanks for sharing this as I can really relate to such stories. It’s all about being in the moment and not missing what’s truly meaningful about our lives. It’s a theme I try to touch upon in my postings and the one in particular that comes to my mind is “A Perfect Moment in Time” which I was inspired to write in Chiang Mai in January.
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Yes, being present in the moment, and truly seeing people, things, as they are, apart from what they seem to have or lack. Thanks for that, for coming here and commenting.
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Just visited her site…thank you for directing me and others to it.
peace
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Hi Deborah
Been a pleasure to read your blog.
I have lived on the streets of Bournemouth, England.
Penniless and hungry at time’s and Woken amazed at others.
This experience was over a six year period with two of them years full time on the street scrounging food round the back of a few restaurants whose staff had some humanity in them.
During these experiences I have been amazed by how the government (Bournemouth Borough Council) had a official figure for homeless people of four, yes a single number, this was for Bournemouth and Poole which is a bit odd. I would have liked to ask some Official if there were any zero’s with that, because I knew there were. I have not got this wrong because when I tried to find out more I was hushed or actively blocked.
So the reason I am writing this is to let some one with an interest know how the dangers of being homeless extend beyond Hunger & financial poverty.
I have known about Homeless people in other part’s of the world for a while, I had not know how common it is that some people for what ever reason want them to disappear.
Well in case anyone who wants Homeless people to disappear is reading, Good Luck with that. I mean this both kindly to the kind and harshly to the harsh.
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Thank you, Susan. And thanks for sharing your story here. That’s amazing, that the government where you live would want to cover up how many homeless live there, rather than trying to do something to help them. We all need to shine a light on this.
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